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Where the hell is this going..or is that coming.  

Platosgames 102M
2244 posts
9/22/2018 9:31 am
Where the hell is this going..or is that coming.


So was having a discovery kind of conversation with an extraordinary lady on here and the question came up..When having sex, and it's time to orgasm, where do you like to cum.

I thought, well that's a easy one. Which ever orifice I happen to be in at the moment. But of course nothing is ever as simple as it seems. What if..

Preface statement. I am not judging anyone. I respect your preferences and like hearing your opinion. This is not a area where there can ever be a I'm right and you're wrong .. To each their own.

So then it was ..what if you're getting a blow job. Do you cum on her face, in her mouth or where?

If you are practicing, no babies sex, (not safe sex, cause then I'd have a condom on), with a steady monogamous partner. And you pull out...where?

My take is this. I think the whole facial thing has been propagated by the porn industry. And I don't understand the fascination with it. I know it makes for a better "shot". haha And for the record, I've experimented with it. Had a lady say she wanted to try it. Neither of us found it to be a wow, that was great thing. If I'm in the depths of passion, and I'm sliding inside of someone, I really don't want to pull out. I mean, I really don't want to.

Instead, after all that wonderful sex, I need to pull out, quickly move up to her face and I end up cumming with the only thing touching my dick is my hand? Not to share too much, but I orgasm quite frequently with my dick in my hand. Why on earth, if I'm with a gorgeous lady would I want to pull out and cum on her face? Trust me , I wasn't doing all that "practice" by myself, just for my big moment and to show her..Look what i learned how to do. I've been practicing

I do find mutual masturbation can be fun, but again, Just not my thinking to be, ok.now I want to cum on her face. /shrug

I do think part of it is also a control thing, I know a lot of women find it degrading. Just me again, but I really don't want to degrade anyone, and I don't need to control anyone. Think control is a fallacy anyways...but that's a different rabbit hole.

And yes, I do know some women who like it. If so..carry on!

But honestly, nothing compares to that feeling when you're inside her. You can feel her contracting around you. And then feel yourself pulsing . All mingled together, resulting in just a great, mind blowing, simultaneous orgasm. Maybe its just me. But I always find that hot.

To each their own...again, not saying I'm right and you're wrong. Like with all things sex and preferences, I say do what makes you happy and do it as often as humanly possible.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 9:34 am

I will say, when it's one of those, have to pull out moments. I've "heard" recently that cumming on her stomach and/or boobs is exciting. So if I just absolutely have to pull out, then I would just do what she wanted.

I'm not real good with following rules, but I can follow directions with the best of them.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/22/2018 9:57 am

Good morning and Happy Saturday, interesting read today and I have to say I am with you, as I don't want his cum on my face especially in my eyes as it fucking burns. I am a swallower myself, and I enjoy the taste of good protein, as it's good for our skin, hair ( especially as long and beautiful as mine is because of all the great protein I have had over the years).

Now there is a time for fun spur of the moment stuff, like cumming on my breasts, that's fun too. As for sex I am with you, leave it in want to feel it..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 10:06 am

    Quoting  :

And I would agree..as long as you don't mind, then it's just a preference thing. Like I said earlier..I talked with a couple of ladies who said they absolutely loved getting a facial. Wait...no, I don't think they were talking about the spa.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 10:09 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Good morning and Happy Saturday, interesting read today and I have to say I am with you, as I don't want his cum on my face especially in my eyes as it fucking burns. I am a swallower myself, and I enjoy the taste of good protein, as it's good for our skin, hair ( especially as long and beautiful as mine is because of all the great protein I have had over the years).

    Now there is a time for fun spur of the moment stuff, like cumming on my breasts, that's fun too. As for sex I am with you, leave it in want to feel it..
Well I can't say I know if it burns, so I'm going to take your word for it Trzz. I have no need to experiment with that one.

And yeah, sorta just like the sex thing, if it was just oral, same thing. Why would I want to pull out. Maybe I'm just being selfish. ha.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 10:13 am

    Quoting  :

Just like I find the sight of a woman in orgasm exciting, I'm sure watching a guy complete can be arousing as well. Lets just say I've been told that by women and leave it at that.

I think it is too, but again, just my opinion. I'm sure some don't find it to be so at all. There's a lot of things I see/hear people enjoy that make me think, "ok...if you say so. "

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 10:50 am

    Quoting  :

Well see, that's the part of watching a woman orgasm that is exciting to me..so I'm with you on that part.

I laughed when I read the part about the good for your skin. I almost put this in the post, but didn't. Now I will

I guarantee you the whole good for your face / skin was started by a guy.

Thanks Lala.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 10:51 am

I'm out for a bit. Going to my moms house. It's her birthday. I know I know, you're asking well Plato, if you're 96 how old is your mom. She's somewhere in her 120's, but when you get as old as us, you lose track of these things.

You fine people just carry on without me.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
9/22/2018 1:11 pm

Shrek says, "Better out than in."
BJ says, "Better in than out."

You may enjoy this old post of an old post of mine. [post 4104069]

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
9/22/2018 2:53 pm

I'm with BJ on her answer "Better in than out". lol My only exception to that would be if he's going to cum in my mouth. Sorry....I'm not one of those that likes that so I would prefer it not happen.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 5:49 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Shrek says, "Better out than in."
    BJ says, "Better in than out."

    You may enjoy this old post of an old post of mine. [post 4104069]
LOL, I did go look at your post. That was great. Thanks.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 5:50 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    I'm with BJ on her answer "Better in than out". lol My only exception to that would be if he's going to cum in my mouth. Sorry....I'm not one of those that likes that so I would prefer it not happen.
Yeah that could be a entirely different post, but I bet that ones been done at least twice and had 15 polls just to make sure. LOL.

thanks for posting.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/22/2018 5:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes..at least I'm on the same planet as you. But thinking it could be fun if you were closer...Like two streets over maybe? Hell, I'd settle for a three hour drive.

I haven't seen the movie, but now I'm gonna have to.

Yeah..I have to agree with the rest of the post.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/22/2018 7:09 pm

This subject usually makes me seem pretty vanilla compared to others here. I am about getting the "fundamentals" taken care of. Plus, "us guys", spend a good deal of time trying to get into a woman's pants (a.k.a. vag), so dropping the load in places other than said vag and her mouth seem just too porny for me. Except for hand jobs in the shower after a romp I have never asked, or been asked to, drop the load elsewhere. And I'm quite good with that.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/23/2018 6:14 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    This subject usually makes me seem pretty vanilla compared to others here. I am about getting the "fundamentals" taken care of. Plus, "us guys", spend a good deal of time trying to get into a woman's pants (a.k.a. vag), so dropping the load in places other than said vag and her mouth seem just too porny for me. Except for hand jobs in the shower after a romp I have never asked, or been asked to, drop the load elsewhere. And I'm quite good with that.
Yeah I'm not sure I like the term Vanilla, after joining this site years back, I discovered I"m not near as kinky as I thought I was.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


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