Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
The AdultFriendFinder Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of AdultFriendFinder. If you have a question to ask, just enter it. Our staff will then review the question and post it below.

Just click the links to give your advice or Add a Question.


rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Ladies this question goes to you.. - 6/30/2008

I what see a question on here asking guys what makes a woman a good lay.

So I ask you ladies, What do you consider when you are going to say if a guy is good in bed or not?

19 response(s), 17 votes
Love Barometer... - 6/30/2008

Fellas,

How do you determine what makes a woman a great lover?

If you are very honest, does her willingness to stroke your ego make a difference?

For instance, if a woman is totally honest and doesn't moan and groan if she's not feeling it, does that make her a bad lover in your eyes?

As apposed to a woman who makes you feel like King Dingaling , moaning and ...

12 response(s), 29 votes
rm_subchik 57 F
1  question
Bi-curious, but how to experiment? - 6/30/2008

I've recently discovered Im bi-curious, and would like to meet a cool bisexual chick to learn from and enjoy time with. My only problem, is that I need the other woman to be relatively forward, as I find myself unable to make a first move ... I'm not sure how to know whether a chick is interested in me ... please - some advice on how I can find someone?

11 response(s), 23 votes
daluvbelow305 40 F
1  question
Good Pussy? - 6/30/2008

Guys, how do you determine if a lady has good pussy???The tightnes, wetness??? Elaborate...

18 response(s), 23 votes
300Striker 48 M
2  questions
The best cams? - 6/30/2008

We are going to get a cam to have some more online fun.Is there one that is way better than all the rest or are they pretty much the same? What makes any better than the rest?What are the features to look for? thanks.

8 response(s), 14 votes
2dreamers1970 53 C
1  question
The first time! - 6/29/2008

What is the best way, as a couple, to set up the "first time" play date with either a woman or another couple?{=}

12 response(s), 16 votes
Lube? - 6/29/2008

I hear a lot of guys state they love a really wet pussy...so my question is..is it a turn off if you have to use lube if the woman isn't naturally wet?

22 response(s), 22 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
Question - 6/29/2008

I have a question? If you fuck real good and do it right the first time, why do you ned it 2 more times(pussy)?

15 response(s), 35 votes
Ladyd123 51 F
4  questions
have u' ever had a 'Brazilian Wax' - 6/29/2008

I'M SO TIRED OF SHAVING !!!!! SO I'D LIKE INPUT ABOUT THIS. ARE THERE DO's and DON'Ts ? IS IT REALLY PAINFUL ? WELL THANK YOU & HOPE YOUR HAVING A GREAT WEEKEND !

16 response(s), 16 votes
Whats a good way to introduce kinkiness to the bedroom - 6/29/2008

My fiance is pretty tame in the bedroom and I wanted to know if there is a good way to introduce her to kinky sex?

14 response(s), 23 votes
'Play time' : Foreplay - 6/29/2008

How much foreplay do you like before 'play time'?

a few options are given below for your convenience

1. None. Zilch. Zero. I'm ready now.

2. A Little Is Good - A few kisses, a little caressing maybe.

3. Some For Sure - I definitely have to have my burners warmed up before cooking.

4. Lots - The lead-up and anticipation is very exciting and ...

16 response(s), 29 votes
rm_bbw4u2injoy 46 F
2  questions
do all men like it when you spit on there cocks? - 6/29/2008

when giving a blow job.. do you love it when your partner spits all over you cock to get you all wet?? ...

39 response(s), 29 votes
rm_bahaderhay 40 M
1  question
sex sites response - 6/29/2008

can you get such response from the sex site you mostly visited or just a waste of time

15 response(s), 21 votes
brendamariana 33 F
5  questions
try this !! - 6/29/2008

Is it really possible to control yourself (and for how long? ) when you are really horny and your sex partner is running his/her hand up your legs while touching you in different other places, kissing your neck rising the temperature higher and higher then getting real close that you can feel his body heat rising and your body is shivering from right inside you asking for the permission to free ...

24 response(s), 30 votes
rm_JoseAFC 57 M
4  questions
PHOTOS - 6/29/2008

Only been on this site for a week but wondered if there was any way of tracking who graded/voted for photos? Any advice welcome although I suspect privacy/anonymity are the key here? Cheers............

14 response(s), 18 votes
brendamariana 33 F
5  questions
new encounters - 6/29/2008

What are the signs that you would give to a person you have just met few minutes ago to tell her/him that you really being turned on and you want that person in bed then and there ? (I mean phyisical signs not words)

21 response(s), 28 votes
brendamariana 33 F
5  questions
sex life (for guys and girls) - 6/29/2008

When Is it a good time to realise that you sex life has shifted from healthy process to an obsession ? and how to go about it without having to go see a specialist?

15 response(s), 17 votes
rm_othrwhtmeat 38 M
7  questions
regarding profile viewing - 6/28/2008

Okay, I know that everyone has the choice of not letting other members know that their profiles have been viewed, hot listed, etc. by choosing that option in their profile preference page. But why would anyone choose to do that at all? If they are going to do that, why not allow others to know so that they can find out if there might be mutual interest? I recently was hot listed multiple times, ...

12 response(s), 26 votes
swtcouple4fun 60 C
36  questions
compatibility, - 6/28/2008

1. Star for the compatibility, in what basis can they tell? 2. Do you base on the star, before you look up their profile?

15 response(s), 16 votes
HotNWildHoney 52 F
1  question
Do you have an amazing fantasy that you fulfilled? - 6/28/2008

If you did, was it as good in reality as you imagined? Did it lose its power as a fantasy?

22 response(s), 20 votes
midniteroses1966 46 F
3  questions
what is hotter - 6/28/2008

when you are bisexual what is hotter about the other woman. breast or her lips or her butt .

18 response(s), 28 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Amusement Park Rides - Safe or Not? - 6/28/2008

What's your opinion? Are amusement park rides safe?

Every year there are casualties related to amusement park rides. For the most part, I think they are safe. Compared to any other activity, I don't think there's any greater risk factor than gettin' in to your car and driving.

19 response(s), 20 votes
brendamariana 33 F
5  questions
fruit - 6/28/2008

Is it ok to use fruit like banana and vegetables as sex toys? If any one have tried this can you share your experience?

19 response(s), 32 votes
What gets you in the mood for 'play time'? - 6/28/2008

As usual it is different for different people. but what about you?

I have given some sugestions below





The Hopeless Romantic - Candles, poetry, soft music, bubble bath



An Enchanted Evening - Flowers, dinner, shampagne, a night out, then in



Sexy Seduction - Luscious lingerie, suggestive notes, hot photos or movies

...

10 response(s), 28 votes
300Striker 48 M
2  questions
permission verification - 6/28/2008

The wife and are are swingers. We have been for years and have enjoyed it all. We have given each other permission to join others without each other. My question is couples don't seem to believe you when you say your wife has given you permission. Is there a way to convince ppl?How can you show them it's true?

11 response(s), 22 votes
twoforone100 53 C
6  questions
a question for couples that swing - 6/28/2008

With summer here and it is the travel season do you ( couples who swing) like to play on the road? How do you going about looking in your vacation spot? Do you search? Do you look in advance or once you get there? Do you use the local chat room? How do you feel about people traveling to your area? Do you play with travelers?

Lets hear from you?



Patrick Pattie

5 response(s), 6 votes
rm_koric69 32 M
1  question
Lingerie - 6/28/2008

What is your favorite type of lingerie? Is it a sexy nighty, a camisole, or garters? Mine would be a corset with garters. That is just sexy to me.

10 response(s), 22 votes
MAW_n_servzwolf 60 C
26  questions
TAHNK YOU - 6/28/2008

I wanted to say thank you to all those answered my question. I do have a doc appt. wed and i will ask her ALOT of questions and some tests done. I have put it off too long guess i didnt want to hear im getting old lol. Good luck with whatever your loking for.

3 response(s), 10 votes
A big wet kiss to you all. - 6/28/2008

This is not a question, just an expression of gratitude for all your lovely input regarding my last question re an awkward situation.

Thank you!

I know we all have had our differences with each other in the past and the advice line can be a place of vitriol and pettiness all too often, but when you all feel like it you can be a great bunch of people , dispensing really well ...

8 response(s), 10 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
what would you do? - 6/28/2008

people marry for their own reasons, right? so i'm just going to ask this w/o giving all the boring details except for one - love has nothing to do with it. they know you don't love them but want to marry anyway. would you marry someone for money?

17 response(s), 26 votes