myself - broad shoulders, no drugs & no diseases (DDF), no record, good teeth. I look younger than my age. Me - unattached, have some good friends. Not *looking* for anything permanent but am happy to see how things develop, primarily just looking for fun, hopefully cool friends. I travel a bit for work and would like to make some new friends that are looking for same - good, fun, adventurous friends with no strings attached. Yes I am 42, but look much younger. A note about SMOKING - I marked light/social smoker because of two things. One, I will indulge depending on my mood, or who I'm with or what we're doing. Sometimes it is cigars, other times it might be cigarettes. Two, I am perfectly capable of going out and having a good time without having to smoke. I know it bothers some people and I will respect that. If you want to just 'hit it and quit it' well that's ok, so long as we enjoyed, but given my druthers I'd prefer to develop a friendship where we are not just a one night stand. If you are married or otherwise attached, I will prefer to hear the 'ok' from your husband or girlfriend, even if it is over a phone and not in per. I would PREFER that, it's not always going to be a deal-breaker. Life brings enough drama into our lives on its own, I live by the idea that there's no need to create any artificial drama by lying or being otherwise dishonest. While I may hold some things back (there has to be SOME things left to discover, right?!?) I won't mislead anybody. I also don't want to pester anybody, so if I send you an email, it will be awhile before I send another if I haven't heard from you either way. Don't take my lack of follow-up for disinterest, my first email was to show interest and trying to kick off contact, I'm trying to respect the fact that you ladies probably get inundated with tons of emails. Also with me there is little need for discretion (single and all that) however I greatly appreciate knowing how to behave when. I don't want to wake all my neighbors in the wee hours of the morning(!) but I don't feel a need to be quiet as a mouse, either. Along that same thought is why I don't have a picture of my privates on here. If you think I should, I'd appreciate hearing from you. If you want to see one, well then I'll oblige perhaps after we've traded a couple of emails. Intelligence...similar to 'sense of humor' this is a very subjective quality, but I appreciate being able to carry on a conversation with you! I am able to speak to a wide variety of interests. If politics matter at all to you, it depends on the issue but I tend to be conservative in the Libertarian sense. If you're not sure what that means, let's talk! Lastly, I'm mostly a gentleman in public. Not always, I can be the bad-boy, but I mostly aspire to being a bit on the classy side if possible. I am as comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt as I am in a suit and tie.

My Ideal Person I like someone who has an independent streak, unafraid to be themselves and also unafraid to do a little exploration (if that hasn't already been done!) Someone who wants to enjoy themselves, and enjoy being around who they're with. Someone I might be able to teach something, and certainly someone who can teach me something! Someone who is not afraid to initiate something physical with me should the mood strike them. Someone who has a passion for something is a great bonus!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Stevie Ray Vaughan, Brian Setzer, Bugs Henderson, to name
but a few

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
a few, it comes down to looks and attitude! Elisha Cuthbert,
Salma Hayek, Jennifer Connelly, Amy Yasbeck...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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